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Prioritization Techniques: “Must–Should–Want” and the 1–3–5 Rule

May 28, 2023 By Olesia Ulianova

In time management, not all tasks are created equal.
Two simple but powerful methods can help you identify what truly matters and structure your day around impact rather than volume.

The “Must–Should–Want” Method

This technique helps you define the importance and urgency of your tasks.
Every morning, before diving into work, ask yourself three questions:

  1. What must I do today to create the biggest impact?
  2. What should I do today to build a better future?
  3. What do I want to do today to make my life fuller and more enjoyable?

Write down your answers honestly — this clarity will shape your day’s priorities.

  • Must tasks are non-negotiable. They’re critical and cannot be postponed — your short-term success or stability depends on them.
  • Should tasks are important but not urgent. They contribute to long-term growth and well-being, and it’s best to handle them before they turn into emergencies.
  • Want tasks are meaningful but flexible. They enrich your life, recharge you, and can be done later — yet they’re essential for maintaining balance.

The “Must–Should–Want” method is about intentional living — not just managing time, but designing your day with purpose.

The 1–3–5 List

To make your to-do list more effective, give it structure and proportion.
The 1–3–5 rule organizes your daily tasks by level of importance:

  • 1 big task — your main focus of the day, the one thing that will move you forward most.
  • 3 medium tasks — supportive actions that add meaningful progress.
  • 5 small tasks — quick wins or routine activities that keep things running smoothly.

Each day, you’ll complete nine tasks total, but with clear prioritization.
This structure prevents overload, helps you stay focused, and ensures that your effort is distributed wisely.

The 1–3–5 list turns chaos into clarity — balancing ambition with realism.

💡 Combine both methods:
Start your morning with the “Must–Should–Want” reflection, then translate your answers into a 1–3–5 list.
You’ll know exactly what deserves your focus — and why.

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Olesia Ulianova

Ph.D., MBA, CEO of Telesens, Founder of IT Grow Center (ITGC)

I am a trainer, coach, and leader with over 15 years of experience at the intersection of technology, management, and people development.

My mission is to help leaders and teams become more effective, adaptable, and self-aware in a world that changes every single day.

🔹 Ph.D. in Technical Sciences and General MBA — a combination of systems thinking and strategic management.
🔹 CEO of Telesens — over a decade of experience in IT business development, organizational transformation, and building high-performance teams.
🔹 Founder of IT Grow Center (ITGC) — a space where future managers, trainers, and leaders grow.
🔹 MBA in Business Psychology — a deep understanding of human behavior, motivation, and management psychology that helps build mature teams and lead change effectively.
🔹 Author of the “Antimanager. Soft Skills Guideline” series — a trilogy on personal development, communication, and leadership.
🔹 Member of the International Association of MBAs (UK)
🔹 Certified Coach (ACSTH/ACTP) and former USAID mentor.

 

My approach is built on a simple belief:

“Everything is possible. The impossible just takes a little longer.”

I believe that growth begins with an honest dialogue with yourself, and actual effectiveness starts with inner balance.

In my blog, I share practical tools, transformation stories, and proven methods that help managers and leaders act consciously, avoid burnout, and achieve more — both in business and in life

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