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How Different Personality Types React to Stress

December 28, 2024 By Olesia Ulianova

🔴 Red Stress — on the verge of boiling point

Triggers:

  • Being excluded from decision-making
  • Having no challenges
  • Not achieving any results
  • Wasting time or feeling generally inefficient
  • Routine, repetitive tasks
  • Lack of control
  • Being constantly told to “tone it down”

Antidote:
Go to the gym. Sign up for a marathon.
Physical activity works wonders for red personalities — it releases pressure and brings back focus. Once the energy finds its outlet, the stress fades.

🟡 Yellow Stress — somewhere high up in the stratosphere

Triggers:

  • Being completely unnoticed
  • Lack of trust from the manager
  • Boring or repetitive work
  • Isolation from the team
  • Being told that laughter at work is “unprofessional”
  • Petty remarks and nitpicking
  • Open criticism

Antidote:
Start something — organize an activity at work or plan something fun after hours.
Meet people, laugh, play, joke. The more you surround yourself with others, the faster you’ll recharge. After that — you’ll shine at work again.

🟢 Green Stress — deep down at the bottom of the valley

Triggers:

  • A general sense of insecurity
  • Unfinished tasks at work
  • Too many people too close
  • Constant, unreasonable changes
  • Obvious conflicts
  • Being forced into the spotlight
  • Any form of criticism — especially public

Antidote:
Ask your manager to lower expectations — at least temporarily.
Take a real rest: gardening, sleeping, or doing something quiet that helps you relax.
Plan a calm weekend or grab a good book and allow yourself two days of peace.

🔵 Blue Stress — close to absolute zero (-273.15°C)

Triggers:

  • Having your expertise questioned, especially in your area of mastery
  • Spontaneous, impulsive decisions by management
  • Risk-taking or gambling behavior
  • Constant, unplanned team changes
  • Silly mistakes made by others
  • Being called “bureaucratic” when you’re simply following proper processes
  • Overly emotional people talking about personal matters

Antidote:
Total solitude. Give yourself time and space to think.
Ask for some breathing room — you’ll naturally return to your calm, structured rhythm.
If doubts linger, ask for help: schedule a conversation with your manager and agree on a clear, logical plan of action to resolve the issue.

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Olesia Ulianova

Ph.D., MBA, CEO of Telesens, Founder of IT Grow Center (ITGC)

I am a trainer, coach, and leader with over 15 years of experience at the intersection of technology, management, and people development.

My mission is to help leaders and teams become more effective, adaptable, and self-aware in a world that changes every single day.

🔹 Ph.D. in Technical Sciences and General MBA — a combination of systems thinking and strategic management.
🔹 CEO of Telesens — over a decade of experience in IT business development, organizational transformation, and building high-performance teams.
🔹 Founder of IT Grow Center (ITGC) — a space where future managers, trainers, and leaders grow.
🔹 MBA in Business Psychology — a deep understanding of human behavior, motivation, and management psychology that helps build mature teams and lead change effectively.
🔹 Author of the “Antimanager. Soft Skills Guideline” series — a trilogy on personal development, communication, and leadership.
🔹 Member of the International Association of MBAs (UK)
🔹 Certified Coach (ACSTH/ACTP) and former USAID mentor.

 

My approach is built on a simple belief:

“Everything is possible. The impossible just takes a little longer.”

I believe that growth begins with an honest dialogue with yourself, and actual effectiveness starts with inner balance.

In my blog, I share practical tools, transformation stories, and proven methods that help managers and leaders act consciously, avoid burnout, and achieve more — both in business and in life

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